Arie, I'm an aspiring actress and I notice the attention a lot of women similar to me receive for sharing their experiences and photos of them with celebrities. I've been fortunate to have my own experiences etc. Do you think I would benefit for coming out and sharing that info with the public to further my career?- Vixxenesk
Are you kidding?? Chatty women with celebrity stories come a dime a dozen. Really think about it and ask yourself, what makes your story different from the next chick looking to come up? and who the hell would care?
The reality is unless you can prove you're having some married "A" list celebrity's kid and moving into his family home to live like a polygamist, and Barack and Michelle are leaving the White House to become your personal nannies.... NO ONE CARES!!! Reality TV and everyone sharing the most personal details of their lives via social networks makes it even harder to wow the public long enough to actually gain from it in the way I think you're hoping to.
Don't let all these video site "urban models" and Twitter girls get you hyped with the number of followers they have and who they're seen partying with, cause here are a few true facts they won't tell you:
1. Knowing and partying with thousand and millionaires doesn't make you one.
2. The majority still work day or night jobs to support their lifestyles. What, you think those videos pay enough to cover the cost of living on top of retail? If not represented by a legit talent agency [which 98.9% of them aren't] at most the girls bring home $100 a day [union average]. Not the thousands they claim. Hell, half are lucky to get that. The usual bunch just get credit [acknowledgement for being there], the possibility of meeting the celebrity, hard dick and sore gums [no sex in the "green room" my ass] and last but not least....
3. Always having to be "on" and ready or risk being replaced by a newer, fresher girl.
Now, I don't know what you think, but that doesn't get you far in life. UNLESS you're able to pull off what I mentioned above [laughing].
And, true if the people and stories are big enough you may get mentioned on a couple gossip sites and open yourself up to predictable groupie slander. But, unless you really and I mean really have some other things going on that are news worthy [i.e. a new movie, book or clothing line etc.] dropping soon that, this obvious publicity stunt could serve to benefit from. Then it's just a waste of time, cause I'm sure based on the basic bitch material you may have to present, there won't be any casting agents or directors banging on your door.
Also, I noticed the double XX in your name, eXactly what kind of actress are you? If you're in the "adult entertainment" industry you better come with something BIG. Cause, porn stars and bus-hoes sleeping with celebs is as common as washing with soap and water; and depending on who you're sleeping with to gain momentary fame, it might be a good idea to stalk up on both [laughing].
My advice, build your brand on what you do, not who you screw. That helps you stand alone and have that security of being truly confident when you walk into a room. Make people know who you are based on your business sense, and as a bonus if hooking up with those same celebrities is something you still want to do for shits and giggles then go for it. But, now the playing field's even and on your terms and not based on what you're trying to gain from them [Get it?]
- Good luck!
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